Misconception.

I feel that when people look at me, a confident woman, painted by tattoo ink, crisp cut line up in my hair, and a ridiculous RBF they immediately are intimidated by me. Little do they know I’m the goofiest and most friendly person they will ever come across. As soon as someone even looks my way and we make eye contact that RBF is out the window! I instantly start smiling hoping that the interaction will lead to conversation. I’m always spaced out which is why I feel that people may think that I’m looking at them with my RBF and may think that I’m not bubbly, but truth be told… 9/10 I’m spaced out thinking about a seafood boil.. or better yet, my girlfriend. Once strangers do initiate a conversation they always say “I didn’t think you’d be this nice, or funny” which I of course take as a compliment because I love to give off a good “mysterious” vibe. I also think that with me being an artist, I have a lot of people who around me at all times wanting to have a good time with me, and I feel that that also intimidates a few people. They see this girl, surrounded by big men (security) and a lot of other people who also seem intimidating and they instantly feel like they can’t come party or vibe with us. But that is 100% not the case! I love when people come over and ask if they can take pictures with me after a show, or ask if I can give them a piece of advice for their music careers, it makes me feel good inside. The type of person I am, once you get to know me, is very inviting. My mom in fact tells me all the time that I’m “too nice”. I’ve had my fair share of bad experiences with people who I’ve called my “friends” people who I thought had the same genuine intentions that I do and had to learn that that isn’t always the case. So when she says that I’m too nice, she’s meaning that I have to learn how to put boundaries on what I allow people to treat me like.